In Rabbi Buchwald's own words:
"What’s the effectiveness of the Beginners Service? Why is the Beginner Service so effective that we had literal statistics at Lincoln Square
Synagogue that if a person goes eight times in a row—that’s all you need, two
months—if people go eight times in a row, two out of three of them will become…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on November 2, 2010 at 10:00am —
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More inspiration from Rabbi Ephraim Buchwald:
“We have to conduct ourselves like a business, to be organized, efficient and focused on reaching our market. But we
must always remember that outreach is not about business, it's about neshamos,
souls. The Gemara in Sanhedrin 37a
teaches us…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 31, 2010 at 10:30am —
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To pick up where we left off in our last post, Rabbi Buchwald continues:
“How can one impact a large number of people to change their stereotypical attitude towards Orthodoxy? We had tremendous siyata
diShmaya. Natalie Gittleson wrote an
article, which ended up appearing in the Sunday Times…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 28, 2010 at 10:30am —
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Don’t expect immediate success. Kiruv takes time. Often, you invest money, resources
and people power for months and your programs are just hanging in there. Growth seems elusive. Don’t give up! If you follow the advice in
this blog, given time and consistent effort, you will be successful.
Here’s more…
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Rabbi Ephraim Buchwald is one of the most successful mekarvim in modern times. He invented the Beginner’s Service and the idea of Crash Courses in Hebrew Reading, Jewish History, etc, while
at Lincoln Square Synagogue in New
York. He has
real data that if someone attended his Shabbos Morning Beginner’s Service eight
times in a row, two out of three people ultimately became shomer mitzvos. You…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 26, 2010 at 10:47am —
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There are three types of
people on committees, Doers, Advisors and Sitters. They each play a unique role. Doers are the people you can depend on to dothe work and get the project done. Advisors are people who have experience and knowledge that can be beneficial to the team, but don’t have time to do the actual work or have no interest in doing the actual work.
Sitters are the people…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 24, 2010 at 10:00am —
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In our last post, we spoke
about budgeting. Well, believe it or not, one of the most important things you have to do when getting your kiruv program off the ground, will cost
you absolutely nothing. And that is developing systems so that any new
person who walks into your shul will feel welcome, appreciated and comfortable.
Your goal is that when they leave they should go with the impression and the
feeling that this is a shul that cares about all Jews… Continue
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 21, 2010 at 2:00pm —
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When you make your presentation to the Board, or if you are the one who will first broach the subject of the shul getting involved in kiruv with the Rabbi and President, it would be a good idea to do a bit of research to get some kind of an initial idea of the amount of funding your program will require. Often, that is the determining factor for a shul to go forward with anynew program. Truthfully, you can get started with no money at all,…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 19, 2010 at 8:30pm —
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Committees can be great and committees can be awful. But you need a committee so that no one person—presumably your champion—tries to do it all him or herself and soon gets so overwhelmed that the entire program has to be scaled back or canceled. Better to have a team of committed people working together, each with specific responsibilities.
As…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 17, 2010 at 9:30pm —
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Every project needs a champion. A champion is more than just being the person in charge, although, hopefully, the person in charge is a champion. A champion is someone who cares deeply about the project and will see it through—come what may—because it is personally important to him or her. It is something the champion feels must happen and he or she is willing to take… Continue
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 10, 2010 at 12:30pm —
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Talk about creative kiruv! On Chol Hamoed Sukkos, my sons and some friends went to the Miami Dolphins game. For real football fans, half the fun is before and after the game. Tailgate parties are all the rage for fans who come early, get the best parking, and break out their lounge chairs, barbecue grills, hot dogs, hamburgers, beer and music. A Sunday afternoon game could easily attract thousands of partiers getting psyched for the big game and then "chillin'" out afterwards… Continue
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 6, 2010 at 11:28pm —
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This morning, in shul, I ran into a good friend of mine, who is a kiruv pro. I asked him what kinds of programs he ran over Sukkos. He said that at the last minute he and his wife decided to go up north to escape the hot weather here in South Florida. So he didn't run any kiruv programs. I was really surprised. So I asked him, "what about your talmidim?" Here is his very insightful answer: He once heard a story of a very well meaning baal bayis who invited a not-yet-frum Jew over… Continue
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 4, 2010 at 10:43am —
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This blog post should have been the first of the Shul Kiruv Planning Guide series, because if you don't get the upfront commitment from key people in your shul, you would be better off starting a little group among your friends, doing something on your own or helping out at a local kiruv organization.
Who exactly am I talking about? Whose commitment do you need? At minimum, the Rabbi and the President. Depending on your shul… Continue
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on October 3, 2010 at 11:30pm —
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Beneath the featured blog posts on the home page, you will see a new box called Answers. This is a terrific new tool where any member of Kiruv Cafe can post a question for everybody else to see. Anybody can answer and then the system automatically organizes and presents all the answers for everybody to learn from. Try it!
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on July 27, 2010 at 2:57pm —
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As participation in Project Inspire kiruv initiatives grows, it became clear that a better vehicle for communication and sharing was needed. Particularly for groups working together, Kiruv Cafe provides an easy method to stay in touch and up to date with what's happening. In addition, Kiruv Cafe can be used by any individual to share ideas and activities that have worked to reach out to fellow Jews with anybody else in the network. Tell your friends! Get connected and become more effective!
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on July 25, 2010 at 11:15pm —
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It was an amazing weekend! The inaugural Project Inspire Conference in Stamford, CT, was a sold out massive success in every way. Everyone in attendance was truly inspired. Rather than trying to describe it myself, here are excerpts from what two of the participants recently wrote. The first is from Rabbi Avraham Goldhar, Director of the Jewish Literacy Institute and creator of the Crash Course in Torah. The second is from Rebbetzin Lori Palatnik, famous video blogger and…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on May 12, 2010 at 10:36pm —
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I really owe you all an apology. Due to numerous personal issues, I have been extremely lax in moderating KiruvCafe. One of the reasons among many has been our recent move back to the US from Ramat Beit Shemesh, Israel. Dealing with everything has taken a tremendous amount of time. But, with Hashem's help, we are back in the saddle again and ready and rarin' to go!
To kick things off, I am headed to Stamford, CT, for the very first Project Inspire Kiruv Convention. All indications are…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on May 6, 2010 at 10:48pm —
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If you, or someone you know, is troubled by unwanted thoughts, a very easy and effective way to get rid of them is to simply “blow them away.” Any time an unwanted thought pops into your mind, blow air out of your mouth forcefully and repeatedly, as many times as you need to, until the thought is blown away.
Once you get proficient at this technique, which usually takes very little time, you will find that you will also be able to successfully blow away not only your yetzer hora when…
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Added by Dovid Shmuel Irwin, MD on November 18, 2009 at 12:00pm —
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Yes, it's time! Time for an easy way to spread Yiddishkeit. Time to develop a technique that can go viral. Time to provide materials that are easily accessible to all who need an ice breaker to begin a discussion about Judaism. It's time to get moving.
Eis La'asos L'Hashem!
Introducing...Just One Mitzvah!
Click on over to "groups," click on "Just One Mitzvah!" and let's get started!
Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on March 25, 2009 at 11:45am —
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It has been much too long since my last post. As many of you know, I was working with the OU helping them set up kiruv programs in shuls. Unfortunately, as the last new program they started, mine was the first to get cut when the budget axe came. But if any of you are working on getting your shul active in kiruv, I'm still here to help, don't hesitate to ask!
So now what, you ask? Excellent question!
After trying to work with two major Jewish organizations and trying to…
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Added by Rabbi Aharon Ungar on March 24, 2009 at 11:45am —
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